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I’m still learning is this: when your body is screaming at you, it doesn’t always mean “go lay down.” Sometimes it’s saying, “please, just come home to yourself.” I know we hear it all the time: “Just rest. Take a break. Unplug.” And while that sounds good on a soft Instagram, for some of us—especially those carrying the weight of expectations (truly our own), navigating the pressure to prove ourselves, grief, generational hustle, or chronic over-responsibility—rest doesn’t

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